I’ve done all the things. I’ve texted my friends, I’ve wished them a happy International Womxn’s Day. I’ve bought tickets to womxn-led events, supported womxn-run businesses, donated to WAGEC, and carved out time to be part of conversations about empowerment. But something about today feels uneasy—like I’m chasing a feeling that won’t quite land.

I am celebrating. But I keep asking myself: Am I doing it wrong?